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Scandalous
By Kristy Molina
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Occasionally, I like going to clubs with a group of friends just to dance and get our drink on. I almost always have
fun on those nights and there is rarely anything that gets in the way of me having a good time, but there is one thing
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". . . there is one thing that bothers me – gold diggers."
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that bothers me – gold diggers. You know what I’m talking about. They’re those girls that think just because they’re so hot they should receive the VIP treatment from every guy they encounter. For instance, standing in lineto get into a club a pretty girl approaches one of my guy friends. They seem to be enjoying each other's company as they exchange names and whatnot. Right as we’re walking into the club this girl has the nerve to ask my friend, “So, do you want to buy me a drink now?” Because my friend doesn’t give her the answer she’d like to hear, she walks away and starts her act over on another guy. This new guy happily obliges to her command and as soon as she has her drink the girl leaves the second guy and then begins the gold digging process on yet a third guy.
I thought the above situation was only an isolated incident, but I soon found out that girls pull this stunt more often than I expected. I ran into an old friend of mine and we had a few drinks as we reminisced about school. Soon the subject of the conversation shifted to that of different clubs in Chicago. She started rambling off the names of very high-end clubs that she had been to and mentioned the very expensive liquors that she preferred to indulge in.
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". . . now I ask you, what kind of distorted mentality is this?"
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Bored to death by her shallowness, it was at this point I realized why she was just an old friend. Anyway, I replied back to her, “Well, I don’t usually go to any of those clubs because personally, I don’t like spending $15 for a simple mixed drink.” And to my surprise she answered, “Hey, I don’t have that kind of money either, but who needs money when you can get guys to buy it for you?”
I’m sure that you have encountered or at least witnessed a similar situation and now I ask you, what kind of distorted mentality is this? These girls are perpetuating the idea that women can be bought, thereby contradicting the amazing gains women in our country have attained in the past century. I’m not a hardcore feminist or anything, but come on! A woman who can be independent and take care of herself is far sexier than a woman who is totally dependent on another person, especially on some random guy.
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". . . for the guys out there, don’t be so naïve!"
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Ladies, have a little more pride and respect for yourselves damn it! Don’t think you can get by in life solely on your looks. Show people that you’re a woman of the twenty-first century by, for starters, not relying on guys to do something for you that you can do for yourself, for example, getting a drink at the bar. And for the guys out there, don’t be so naïve! If you want to buy a girl a drink, do it because you want to, not because she asked you to. Guys
who submit to random girls’ wishes give all guys a bad name. Be strong! Think with your mind, not your penis! Now that the gold digging scandal has been exposed, go out my grasshoppers, and apply what you have just learned!
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